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MARRIAGE BY CHEMISTRY

Relationship is not love at first sight, sex at first night or breakups at first fight. Any relationship that must culminate into marriage must not be based only on chemistry. IF YOU ARE MARRY BASED ON CHEMISTRY, YOU ARE LIKELY TO BECOME A CASUALTY IN THE LABORATORY OF LIFE. Marriage based on chemistry is marriage based on feelings and emotions. Marriage is not only a sexual union but a spiritual union.

Man is a spirit, lives in a body and has a soul. Humans beings are social creatures, we relate in the spirit, soul and physical dimensions. The progression is crucial. Healthy Relationship should always begin at the spiritual, intellectual, goals, personality development and not the other way around. The physical dimension is the least important of the various dimension. However, our human culture and circumstances has reversed the process, which ought not to be, in order for one to have a healthy relationship.

Love does not guarantee happiness in marriage. No state of love is permanent. Love in marriage is not a feeling, but a commitment. Physical attraction  leads to deep emotional involvement; and by the time you discover you are not compatible spiritually and intellectually, it may be rather to late; and you may have been already entangled emotionally. I keep hearing stories of singles breaking relationships on the basis of incompatibility after sharing their bodies together. Simply because, Emotions Fizzles out with time. No start of state of love is permanent.

Dr Myles Munroe of blessed memory counselled, :Marry your friend not only your lover:. If you marry your lover, you are establishing your marriage on physical attraction which is subject to change. USE YOUR DATING TIME TO GROW A FRIEND NOT TO GROW A LOVER.

Dr Tinu-Steve Babalola
C.E.O Tinu-Lade Consult

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