GET A LIFE BEFORE YOU GET A WIF E . Myles Munroe of blessed memory says,"when purpose is not known abuse is inevitable'. As a man you must have discovered your purpose before you desire a partner. Albert Oduwole says " Until you have a life you don't need a life partner. Your partner in life should be chosen based on your purpose In life. As a man,you just don't marry for pleasure but for purpose Apart from discovering your purpose,you need to develop yourself; you must make yourself as good as the person you desire. YOU ATTRACT THE VERY PERSON THAT YOU ARE. BE THE ONE YOU SEEK. Water will always finds its level. Proverbs 27 :19 says, "Don't ever become so preoccupied with who you want that you forget who you are". Develop and exhibit the qualities you want in your potential partner. Let's consider some crucial areas of developments: ...